Jasmine asked if I had ever photographed a Persian wedding. "Hmm, not yet, but I would LOVE to!" was my answer. As soon as we hung up the phone, I started my research on a few of the key details she discussed. A few days later, I met Jasmine to discuss the details of her wedding at Blue Bottle Coffee in Mint Plaza. I couldn't tell if it was the coffee or her wedding overview, but I started to get really excited and inspired as Jasmine discussed how she and Ahmed wanted to adapt some (but not all) of the customs. I got goosebumps when she explained the Aayeneh-ye-Bakht (Mirror of Fate) she and Ahmed would look into during the ceremony. It symbolizes their bright future together, but more than that they view themselves together as others see them <3 We also discussed their Sofreyen Aghd (Table of Wedding). A table set in front of the seated bride and groom adorned and covered with fruits, nuts, cookies, a bowl of honey, crystalized sugar, candelabras, herbs and spices, eggs, and flowers all with beautiful purpose and meaning behind them. My favorite might be the colorful thread and needle (to figuratively sew up the mother-in-law's lips from speaking unpleasant words to the bride!).
Something that moved me beyond the physical beauty and meaning of the wedding details was how loving, humorous, and warm both families and friends were. By the end of the day (and night), I drove home with the same energy that I had after our first meeting at Blue Bottle Coffee.... so maybe it wasn't the coffee at all :-)
A big thank you to Jasmine and Ahmed, for inviting me to play a part in such a beautiful part of their lives! I won't forget it.